Puzzle Pieces

This past week I was blessed to finally receive a piece to my puzzle I’ve been looking for for months.  (A figurative life puzzle, but I do have a few literal puzzles with missing pieces I wouldn’t mind finding.)  And it fits.  Oh, it fits so well it’s miraculous.  This piece makes sense out of so may other pieces I’ve collected.  I am absolutely overjoyed to have this piece, both because the increasing discomfort I was feeling at NOT having the piece is now over and because the piece itself is pretty super deluxe.

Wouldn’t you know it, the second the piece was presented a few of my weaknesses started popping up too.  The first one was pride, yet again…sigh.  I can’t believe I’m still singing that same old song.  To earn this new piece I’ve had to give up a few that didn’t fit, or that I no longer need.  (I know I’m being vague here, but believe me when I say the details don’t matter nearly so much as the attitudes.)  I began being a little resentful when I found out that a few of the pieces, that I already recognized didn’t fit, were being taken away whether I got the new piece or not.  That’s not all, I also became a little resentful when I found out some of the other pieces I thought needed to be cleared might not be in the way I hoped.  That’s a lot of words to say one thing: My pride overwhelmed me.  Things started going well for The Am-dawg, and I went from my current position at A clear to Z in about 5 minutes of daydreaming in an unrealistic, and more importantly, incorrect way.  (Seriously, this is a huge weakness of mine.)  I can’t believe how quickly my pride flares up after every good thing happens.  My only hope is that I am recognizing it quicker each time so that I can correct it.  This brings to mind a favorite CS Lewis quote of mine (seriously, that man’s wisdom is so admirable):

We begin to notice, besides or particular sinful acts, our sinfulness; we begin to be alarmed not only about what we do, but about what we are. This may sound rather difficult, so I will try to make it clear from my own case. When I come to my evening prayers and try to recon up the sins of the day, nine times out of ten the most obvious one is some sin against charity. I have sulked or snapped or sneered or snubbed or stormed. And the excuse that immediately springs to mind is that provocation [against me] was so sudden and unexpected: I was caught off my guard, I had not time to collect myself. now that may be an extenuating circumstance as regards those particular acts: they would obviously be worse if they had been deliberate and premeditated. On the other hand, surely what a man does when he is taken off his guard is the best evidence for what sort of a man he is? Surely what pops out before the man has time to put on a disguise is the truth . . .

” If there were rats in the cellar you are most likely to see them if you go in very suddenly. But the suddenness does not create the rats, it only prevents them from hiding. In the same way the suddenness of the provocation does not make me an ill-tempered man: it only shows me what an ill tempered man I am . . . And if (as I said before) what we are matters even more than what we do – if, indeed, what we do matters chiefly as evidence of what we are – then it follows that the change which I most need to undergo is a change that my own direct voluntary efforts cannot bring about . . . I cannot, by direct, moral effort, give myself new motives. After the first few steps in the Christian life we realize that everything which really needs to be done in our souls can only be done by God.” (Mere Christianity, 164-165)

The second weakness this new puzzle piece brought out was fear.  I have received overwhelming confirmation that this is the right piece for me.  Absolutely overwhelming, and from multiple sources.  I started to get worried that getting this much assurance meant that the piece was going to be really difficult.  What a lack of faith that shows!  This is a piece I’ve been praying to receive for months and months.  I’ve been in tears, I’ve pleaded, I’ve done my best to increase my obedience, I’ve had my trial of faith that I’m pretty sure I passed.  Instead of looking at this strong confirmation as something I’ll need in the future, I am beginning to recognize that this could be a tender mercy, an extra blessing, for what I’ve already done.

In the fields outside of Bethlehem were shepherds. They were good and honorable men who believed and trusted in God and protected and cared for their flocks. What began as an ordinary night for the shepherds became another treasured part of this most celebrated event.

An angel of God appeared to them, “and the glory of the Lord shone round about them. . . .

“And the angel said unto them, Fear not: . . . I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord” (Luke 2:9–11).

An angel had just declared the coming of the long-awaited Messiah, but the wonder did not end with that declaration. The angel gave the shepherds a sign, a confirmation that the Savior had been born.
(Neil L. Anderson, Room in the Inn, Click here to read it, it’s wonderful!)

The shepherds being there did not change the fact that our Messiah was born that night, but they were still given a sign of His birth and were blessed to see Him.    They did not seek the sign, but because of their faithfulness one came as a confirmation.  “Signs shall follow them that believe” (Mark 16:17).  When we are doing our best to be righteous and obedient, we will be blessed abundantly with signs that we are on the right path.  Probably not as many or as frequently as we desire, but with more than we need.

Both these things are opposite sides of the same coin.  The bottom line is I should not try to make assumptions or “read into” blessings I receive things that are not there, whether that thing is pride in overestimating my own righteousness or fear undermining the blessing.  Both are unproductive practices.

Recognizing and admitting weaknesses can be a painful process, but I can’t fix a problem I don’t see!  I know that the first step to overcoming weaknesses is recognizing them.  Only then can I begin to pray for the spiritual gift that will help me overcome them and work to achieve a mighty change of heart.


One thought on “Puzzle Pieces

  1. This post just appeared in my wordpress reader today. I have no idea how that happened besides the Lord knew I needed to read it so he did something weird to make that happen. I am in this place, where I am reading into blessings, and being prideful after getting a blessing. I am so glad I recognized that it is pride so I can try to stomp it out again. Why do we do this?


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